UNTIL YOU ARE A VICTIM
A victim may be defined as a person harmed, injured, or killed as a result of a crime, accident, or other event or action. Other names for victim are wounded person, sufferer, injured party or person.
It is quite unfortunate to see a lot of unvictimized persons quick enough to pass out unreasonable judgement on a decision taken by a sufferer.
One question the many so called judges fail to ask themselves is, "What would I have done if I were in their position?" They are only interested in weighing the case before them from their own angle, while they show no soundness in looking from the victim's.
People are victims because of the dilemma they find themselves in. When one is in a difficult situation, they become isolated, and isolation leads to the decision taken by them. These decisions are the best possible answers to their problem.
It should not come as a surprise to us, when we see a mentally injured lover, who decides not to tie the knot with anyone, possibly because he or she had experienced a shattered love life. On another page, we find some who go ahead to commit suicide, because of one thing they have been through all their life.
The two aforementioned examples, out of the numerous sufferers' situations, are due to the fact that they swim through an ocean of hurt and pain, coupled with their inability to get out of it, or their incapacity to hold on for a time they'd eventually be out of it by help. Not everyone can persevere, carry on, or plough on.
Until the unvictimised becomes a victim, they won't realize why many victims take some decisions n. In line with the topic, we can say that judgements are merely dished out opinions.
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Victor Apata
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